Getting back into the dating game
Aries likes a challenge, so you could tease him a bit when he starts getting bossy, keeping what he wants out of reach until the end of the pursuit.
If trying to win an argument, the smart partner of an Aries man will subtly convince him that her ideas are really his ideas.
Some Aries men have a roving eye, which is not an attractive quality, so to keep him playing in his own back yard, keep your body sleek, your lingerie sexy (a few skimpy pieces in his favorite color, red, would be a good idea) and the lights low (candlelight is perfect--Aries rules fire).
Most of all, keep him guessing because he loves the thrill of the chase. Cook him a spicy dinner, perhaps something Tex Mex--or--just tease him by putting a jalapeno pepper in your mouth and dare him to bite it gently (a la 9 1/2 Weeks).
He is apt to be aggressive and spontaneous, and this is one man who likes to take the lead.
You want to do this right, and that means re-engaging with an abundance of caution and more confidence than ever. “See if she’d like to join you at an art gallery opening, see a movie, or a hike on a sunny day,” says Spira. “If it’s meant to be, she’ll come around on her own time-table.” 4.
Judging from the popularity of the events (attendance has doubled at each new gathreing) this formula for love seems to be working.
The next Lock and Key party takes place Sunday, May 26 from to 3pm at the Santa Barbara Polo & Racquet Club and also launches Darsonvals Meet the Matchmaker series that will be held monthly, when the expert will be on hand to answer questions about dating in Santa Barbara and to connect singles during polo matches.
She knows, you know—keep the conversation light.” 5.
Own up: If she seems open, and you want to step up for another at-bat, acknowledge your shortcomings.